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Avoiding Burnout: Support for New Caregivers

February 13, 2025 by Karen Weeks

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Even a small corner of a room can be a useful haven during a caregiver’s day. Unroll a yoga mat and do simple stretches to practice mindfulness and relieve body tension. Photo by Jeongsun Lee via Unsplash

 

Becoming a caregiver is a deeply rewarding yet demanding role, often requiring long hours, emotional resilience, and constant attention to another’s needs. When you’re caught up in providing care, it’s easy to overlook personal well-being. But neglecting self-care can lead to burnout, stress, and declining health.

New caregivers, whether young people caring for their older people or spouses caring for their partners, must find ways to balance their responsibilities while maintaining their own physical, mental, and emotional wellness. Prioritizing self-care isn’t a luxury. It’s a necessity that enables caregivers to provide better support while sustaining their own energy and well-being.

Embracing the Power of Saying No

As a new caregiver, understanding the significance of setting boundaries is essential. You do this to safeguard your mental and physical health. By learning to say no to additional commitments that could overwhelm your emotional reserves, you must prioritize your well-being. That’s the best way to prevent burnout. Don’t let family members pile on more hours than you can realistically give. Try to consistently decline tasks that exceed your ability to do them. For instance, if you cannot lift the person you’re caring for, don’t wreck your back trying to. Talk about hiring help with the other stakeholders–siblings, health care professionals, and the like.

Enthusiasm is highest when you’re just starting out. Most people who become caregivers do so for the noblest of reasons. They want to express their love for the person who has given them love throughout their lifetime. But be realistic about what you can and cannot do. Your goal is to maintain a balanced lifestyle, ensuring you have the energy and motivation to fulfill the commitment you’ve made to the person who needs help.

Balancing Career and Caregiving with Online Education

Not all caregivers are family members. Let’s say you’re in your twenties and caring for an older person who needs a companion. Possibly, you’re a college student working in exchange for room and board or a grandchild, niece, or nephew. Whatever your circumstances, pursuing your career and educational goals doesn’t have to take a backseat. Online degree programs offer a flexible solution, allowing you to manage work, study, and caregiving responsibilities effectively. For instance, earning an IT degree online can equip you with valuable skills in information technology and cybersecurity, fields that are increasingly in demand. This enhances your career prospects for the day when your time is freed up again. If you’d like to learn more, this resource may help.

Creating a Tranquil Home

Cultivating a home environment that supports your well-being through relaxation and healthy habits is crucial. Transforming a corner of living room into a dedicated wellness space, like a cozy yoga studio or a spa-inspired bathroom, can significantly enhance your self-care routine. Incorporating elements such as natural light, indoor plants, and calming colors can amplify the sense of tranquility and rejuvenation.

Developing a mindfulness practice could be your single most important tool in keeping exhaustion and burnout at bay. Even if you’re providing care in someone else’s home, be sure to carve out some space for yourself. Even rolling out a yoga mat in a corner will allow you do some stretches.

Honoring Your Personal Interests

Prioritizing your own interests and hobbies is essential for a fulfilling life beyond your caregiving duties. Engaging in activities you love not only helps you recharge but also provides a much-needed break from the demands of caregiving, allowing you to return with renewed energy and focus. By exploring hobbies, you can better manage your mental health and preserve your identity, even when your free time is limited.

Finding a Supportive Caregiver Community

Whether you’re a paid or unpaid caregiver, the challenges of this work are immense. Maybe you’re having to pull back from your full time job to do it. Maybe you’re doing it because there’s no one else in your family who will. Whatever drew you to this role, you are not the first or only person who finds themselves performing tasks they never imagined they’d do. Joining a network of fellow caregivers is crucial for sharing resources, practical advice, and emotional support. By connecting with others who have similar experiences, you can discover strategies and insights that might not be easily accessible elsewhere. More important, you can develop deep friendships. Warmth and caring from others will recharge your batteries.

Online platforms host numerous support groups that offer solace and guidance. These virtual communities are especially beneficial for those in remote areas, providing a sense of belonging and understanding.

Cultivating a Deeper Sense of Gratitude

Incorporating gratitude into your daily routine can profoundly enhance your experience as a caregiver, fostering a more positive mindset. By focusing on the aspects of life you appreciate, whether they are small joys like a sunny day or significant events like favorable medical results, you can alleviate stress and improve your mental well-being. This practice not only boosts your mood by releasing serotonin and dopamine, hormones associated with happiness, but also enhances your physical health by lowering blood pressure and improving sleep quality.

Recognizing Your Limits to Prevent Burnout

Understanding and respecting your personal limits is essential in preventing burnout, a condition of chronic stress that can significantly affect your well-being. By setting clear boundaries and learning to say no, you can protect your mental health and maintain a manageable workload. Effectively managing tasks and achieving goals can enhance job satisfaction and motivation, reducing the likelihood of feeling overwhelmed. It’s crucial to communicate your limits to family members and even to the person you’re caring for.

Caring for someone else starts with caring for yourself. If you can make time for rest, seek support, and establish personal boundaries, you will stay strong, both physically and emotionally. By embracing self-care, you can maintain your well-being and provide the best possible support for the person you’ve promised to help.

 

Karen Weeks is a senior lifestyle blogger who believes nothing is off limits to seniors. After retirement, she struggled to find a new sense of purpose. She created www.Elderwellness.net – a resource for seniors who wish to keep their minds, bodies and spirits well.

A Safety Net for Health Care

April 4, 2023 by Karen Weeks

seniors with backpacks traveling in Europe
Travel is often a component of active retirement. But what if one of these seniors tripped on the cobblestones and broke an ankle? What if a broken hip required months of rehab? Having a health care safety net in place can bring peace of mind. (via Pixabay)

Advance planning for retirement and healthcare can provide an extra layer of security. And for caregivers of seniors, it’s especially important to know what kinds of financial resources are available for the day your loved one will require paid care or the day you’ll have to step in and manage their affairs.

Why a Health Care Safety Net Is Necessary

Thankfully, many of those over 65 can count of the support of Social Security and Medicare. Social Security benefits can be quite modest, even for those who’ve worked their entire lives, but on the plus side, Medicare provides a partial safety net for illnesses that require hospitalization.

Unfortunately, not everyone over 65 is eligible for Medicare. Some employers don’t pay into the Social Security system. Public employees typically have a portion of their pay sent to the state or local government’s retirement system. And, many public employee retirement systems are underfunded.

Based on funding ratios, Wisconsin, Washington, and South Dakota have the best funded public pension plans in America. The worst funded plans are in Illinois, Kentucky, and New Jersey. Every year, state retirees from Illinois face the very real prospect of seeing their benefits cut back. This is but one example of why it’s a good idea for individuals to use a belt-and-suspenders’ approach when planning for retirement.

Put in place safeguards before the unexpected occurs. These safeguards can include a period of part-time work while getting all the pieces of a long-term plan in place. Or, it can include long-term care insurance purchased before the cut-off date of 69. Know what the big picture is before making big changes. Inform those likely to become your caregivers of your financial and health-care plans.

The Perfect Part-Time Job

Transitioning to full retirement is often a gradual process. After age 65, many seniors are glad to give up the stressors that go along with a day job. But for good brain health, it’s important to still be actively engaged. Painting, ceramics, writing, or music are ways to enrich a life well lived. Volunteering at the local library or delivering Meals On Wheels are activities that make life feel meaningful. Human contact is essential for our sense of wellbeing.

The early retirement years are also the perfect time to add an income stream. Updating an existing resume and finding part-time employment are good first steps. It’s never a bad idea to keep money flowing in as long as you are able. But look for a job while you and your partner are in good health. Scrambling for work while you have a sick partner only adds to your stress level.

A tip: Before agreeing to part-time employment, make sure you know how the work will affect your Social Security or disability benefits. At some point, you may have to decide whether working is worth it, or whether you’d be better off volunteering.

Smart Investing

Many seniors have invested wisely and created a retirement plan or health-care safety net that isn’t dependent on Social Security. Investments in stocks, bonds, mutual funds, IRAs, TIAA plans, and real estate investment properties can provide greater financial security than Social Security’s modest monthly income. But, even so, seniors need to protect those assets from downside risk. A fall in the stock market, a plunge in home prices, or a medical catastrophe can threaten the most carefully laid plans.

Online apps can help you do a quick assessment. Working with a financial advisor can help ensure that you’re investing wisely and getting the most out of your money.

Open a Health Savings Account (HSA)

A Health Savings Account (HSA) is an invaluable tool for anyone looking to save money on medical expenses. It allows individuals to set aside pre-tax dollars for qualified medical expenses like doctors’ visits, prescription drugs, hospital stays, and more. Knowing that you have extra funds saved up in case of unexpected health events provides financial peace of mind. The pre-tax feature means that you can reduce your taxes at the same time.

Save Money for Emergencies

Part of your safety net strategy is to set aside six months of living expenses. Total up your monthly expenses and then multiply by six. Don’t think, “Oh, I’m spending too much. I can economize if I have to.” No. Just stick with the actual numbers. Alternately, you could use AARP’s Money Map tool to figure out what a realistic amount should be.

Having an emergency fund is essential. By setting aside a certain amount of money, you can be prepared for anything that life throws at you. You should be able to tap into this money without selling any assets.

Buy Long-Term Care and Disability Insurance

Disability insurance is important for those who may become unable to work due to illness or injury. Long-term care insurance is equally important. It helps cover the cost of long-term care for those who are aged or disabled. And, while many people have car and homeowner’s insurance, surprisingly few have purchased insurance that will cover long-term care. According to our research, you must purchase this insurance before age 69 in order to be fully covered in your later years.

Long-term care policies provide financial security in case of an emergency. If there is no insurance, then the responsibility of caring for a loved one falls directly on a family member. It’s then that the family member wishes their loved one had thought about a safety net, either through socking away tons of money or by purchasing long-term care insurance.

Let’s look at an example. Caring for a senior with dementia means the caregiver must stop working. A person with Alzheimer’s can’t be left alone in the house. They’d escape or let a pot boil dry on the stove. Yes, the Family Medical Leave Act does allow caregivers to take up to three months leave in any 12-month period, while receiving sixty to seventy percent of their normal salary, but that’s not nearly enough. As is obvious to anyone who has been dealing with long-term caregiving, one cannot predict how long the caregiving stint is going to last. The uncertainty and open-ended nature of caregiving endangers that caregiver’s own financial future. And this burden falls, unsurprisingly, on women.

Thus, it’s important for women to make sure they protect their own financial futures. One resource that’s particularly good at helping women examine the impact of caregiving is www.WiserWomen.org. Even if you’re not a quantitative genius, their online calculator will help you figure out the impact that caregiving can have on your life.

With people living longer, it’s quite likely that children in their sixties and seventies will be acting as caregivers for frail parents in their eighties and nineties. Lynn Friss Feinberg, senior strategic policy adviser for AARP’s Public Policy Institute, says that it’s now common for Baby Boomers to be “caring for a parent in their 90s or older.”

Here’s the bottom line. If you’re likely to become a caregiver in the next few years, discuss long-term care insurance with your loved ones so that everyone’s welfare is considered.

Exploring the Cost of Assisted Living

Don’t think you’re alone in this. The government is well aware that our population is aging. At the same time, it’s going to be harder to find paid in-home caregivers. Increasingly, the responsibility for caring for those of advanced age will fall on the family. And, sometimes, the care is more than any one person can do.

For seniors with no financial resources, Medicaid can help. Medicaid can often cover most of a senior’s care, but there are stipulations as to how much money the senior can have in a bank, whether they own their own home, etc. Medicaid benefits vary from state to state, and with Medicaid, there’s a great deal of oversight.

Shifting money out of a senior’s account in order to qualify for Medicaid will not work. Accounts are audited. Issues like guardianship, power of attorney, and advance directives may also need to be addressed. And, this can be tough on the emotions. Very often, the person you’re trying to help will resist you every step of the way.

To give you a quick overview of how to tackle some of these issues from a legal standpoint, you might want to go to www.AskALawyerOnCall.com.

Make Sure You’re Staying Within the Law

Even if you would like to shift the physical care of your loved one away from you personally and into an institutional setting, that may not be easy. A loved one’s determination to continue living at home can derail your plans. And siblings may back them up. In addition, the reversal of the parent-child roles can drain you emotionally.

Eventually, the stress of caring for an elderly loved one can become too much. The day may come when it’s clear to everyone that the senior can no longer live independently.

Eldercare lawyers are a great local resource. They’ve dealt with many clients who are dealing with what you’re dealing with. Sitting down and talking to a neutral third party can be calming. In some circumstances, they may suggest legal guardianship, particularly in the case of someone with dementia. And if nursing homes, group homes, or assisted living apartments makes sense, you can then begin to compare the costs and quality of service.

Creating a retirement plan and healthcare safety net doesn’t have to be an ordeal. Individual caregivers don’t have to reinvent the wheel. The National Council on Aging has tons of information for aging adults and for their caregivers. Having a plan in place can give you and your senior peace of mind that their needs will be met as they age.

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Resources for Senior Caregivers

February 15, 2023 by Karen Weeks

Being a senior caregiver is a rewarding job, but it can also be challenging, both physically and emotionally. It takes a lot of time, effort, and dedication to provide quality care while also balancing your own work and personal life. Long-term stress can take a toll on your overall well-being.

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Caregivers can be grandchildren, nieces, or nephews. Caring for seniors provides an opportunity for intergenerational bonding. Even grandchildren who just stop by to visit can lift the spirits of seniors who spend the day alone. (Image via Pexels)

Tap At-Home Services

Hiring at-home services (home health aides, meal delivery, and housekeeping services) can lighten the load of caring for seniors. These services can be tailored to fit your needs and budget. Take a look at your options online, as these services vary around the country.

“Ordering in” provides another benefit. Often those who deliver Meals on Wheels provide social contact that’s good for seniors’ mental health.

Don’t assume that hiring help is just for people with loads of money. Depending on which state you live in, you may find that state support makes home health care affordable, even for those of modest means. Here’s a state-by-state breakdown of benefits. For a complete list of services, download this brochure. It will point you to programs that might be just what you or your senior needs.

But isn’t hiring all these services going to break the bank? No, it’s not. So called “Cash and counseling programs” originally began as a pilot program to assist Medicaid-eligible seniors. This pilot program has now expanded to every state, with each state calling it something different. Services are different, too. However, the basic idea is to provide money so that seniors can hire and pay their own caregivers.

Ask for Help

Often, caring for a senior falls primarily on one person, often a middle-aged daughter. However, in many cases, the caregiver can call on family members for extra help. A family member who lives far away might be able to fly in for a week or more. If clothing is needed, they can shop and send a care package by mail. Those who live close can drive mom or dad to doctors’ appointments or run errands.

But why don’t other people see what needs to be done and do it? Oftentimes, people who aren’t involved on a day-to-day basis hang back. They don’t want to step on the caregiver’s toes. Also, they don’t know what, exactly, needs to be done. So, rather than complain that the burden is all on you, figure out specific, actionable tasks. Delegate! It can make a big difference in your mental health.

Ask About Job Flexibility

If your job requires you to work outside the home, then consider asking your boss about flexible work hours or working remotely. In many cases, this will allow you to take care of your loved one during the day without you having to sacrifice your job in the process. Additionally, some employers offer paid leave for caregivers.

According to the website Easy Living, a Florida company that specializes in senior care,

  • An estimated 66% of caregivers are female.
  • The average caregiver is a 49-year-old woman who works outside the home and provides 20 hours per week of unpaid care to her mother.
  • Although men also provide assistance, female caregivers may spend as much as 50% more time providing care than male caregivers.

Taking on the role of caregiver means that a working adult risks being short of money when they enter their own senior years. For that reason, it’s important that caregivers look into the possibility of getting paid.

Don’t Work for Free

If you get paid, then you contribute to your own Social Security account.

In California, New York, Washington, the District of Columbia, New Jersey, and Rhode Island, caregivers taking time off work can receive up to between 60% and 70% of their lost wages up to a maximum of $1,620 per week (as of January 2023), for up to 8 weeks during a 12-month period. The benefit amount is determined by an applicants’ highest quarter of earnings during the previous 12 months.

If your family member qualifies for Medicaid, then in seven states – New York, Nevada, Missouri, Pennsylvania, Arizona, and Indiana – a friend or family member can get paid to be a caregiver.  If the senior being cared for is a veteran, then the options for care are even greater. There’s no time limit on getting paid. Many veterans have such severe injuries that they must be cared for 24/7. That care can last years.

Younger Caregivers

What can happen is that caregiving goes on far longer than anticipated. The middle-aged daughter might realize she needs to go back to work because she can see her own retirement just over the horizon. Perhaps, there’s a young person in the family who could step in.

A young person – a grandchild or grand-niece or grand-nephew – might volunteer to help out for what they envision as a short-term good deed. Or, they might be forced to become a caregiver because there’s simply no one else. (See the story of Jacquelyn Revere below.)

In some ways, moving in with an elderly relative solves problems for both generations. The young person gets room and board in exchange for light housekeeping and companionship. They may even get paid, something that’s good for self-esteem. A stint of family caregiving can also allow people in their twenties time to regroup and decide on long-term goals.

Plan for Online Learning

If the younger generation opts in and becomes a family caregiver, then going back to school online is an excellent way to increase their knowledge base. If the demands of caregiving aren’t too heavy, the responsibility involved in caring for an elder can advance a young person’s career. If the young person was let go due to downsizing, had a job with on-again, off-again shifts, or thought their job wasn’t going anywhere, then becoming a caregiver could be a perfect fit.

That’s because caregiving often means many empty hours during the day. (If the older person has dementia, that’s not the case. There are no empty hours.)

Depending on the needs of the senior, however, a younger caregiver might be able to sign up for online courses. There are many courses, such as those offered through Coursera, that offer degrees and certifications in IT, business, healthcare, and more. These online programs could open up opportunities in the future. If a young person takes on a caregiving role, knowing that they have career options can help lighten the load and reduce stress.

Have a CV Handy

Whether you’re a middle-aged woman taking time out to help her mom or a younger person, your time as a caregiver doesn’t have to show up as a blank space on your resume. And, eventually, you’ll be ready to make the transition from caregiver back into the workforce.

As a caregiver, you’ve proven you can handle responsibility. Having an updated CV will showcase all of your skills, qualifications, and experiences so you can impress potential employers. Build a stunning curriculum vitae with an online builder. The best part? Creating a professional-looking document is easy with a CV template, which you can customize with your favorite copy, colors, and images.

Find Support

Being a senior caregiver can be overwhelming, even for the most experienced individual. To combat burnout, join support groups and forums where you can touch base with other caregivers. They understand what you’re going through. They’re your cheering section.

This is especially beneficial if your caregiving duties make it impossible for you to leave the house. Listen to this NPR story about Jacquelyn Revere, a 29-year-old woman who became a #dementia TikTok celebrity. Jacquelyn’s mother and grandmother both had Alzheimer’s, and it was up to her to keep the family afloat. Just imagine the Herculean effort it took to care for two women with dementia at the same time!

Meditate for Me-Time

As you look for support, remember to schedule alone-time. Even if you’re housebound, you can take a mental break by meditating. Meditating has been shown to reduce stress levels and improve overall mental health. Releasing stress is essential when taking care of someone else. Taking just 15 minutes out of each day for yourself can make all the difference when it comes to staying focused and energized.

Being a senior caregiver is no easy task, but there are resources you can tap into. They make the job easier. And, like Jacquelyn Revere, you may discover that caregiving helps you redefine your life’s purpose.

 

Here, Family Caregiver Support has compiled a list of tips that will help make your daily responsibilities easier. Check out inspiring caregiver stories. 

The Best Side-Gigs for Senior Caregivers

May 23, 2022 by Karen Weeks

Working as a paid senior caregiver is a meaningful and rewarding experience for many. However, in the long run, putting out energy to care for the elderly can take a toll on your mental health. That’s certainly true for family caregivers, and it is just as true for those who provide caregiving services for pay.

Even though home-health aides provide essential services for seniors, the pay has never been great. (According to Senior Care, a site that connects caregivers with those who need care, the pay scale for aides ranges from $8 an hour in Louisiana to $22 an hour in Alaska.) If you’re a senior caregiver, then every payday, you face the problem of low wages. The home-healthcare industry typically undervalues your contributions.

This article can help you balance the work you are doing now with your aspirations for the future. Below we’ll discuss side-gigs to provide short-term income. More than a hobby, these can also lead to long-term careers.

 

elderly man and his caregiver
Although senior caregivers provide essential services, the pay scale means that many caregivers need a supplementary source of income. Image Source: Pexels

Side-Gigs with Flexibility and Good Pay

Flexible hours and a steady flow of income are two things to look for when you’re thinking about side-gigs. Here are three options that perfectly fit the bill.

  • Virtual Assistant
  • Freelance Writing
  • Virtual babysitting

All three have the benefit of being able to fit into your current schedule. You can try them out, or mix and match, to see which one’s right for you. The other good thing is that you can earn more money without going back to school.

Virtual Assistants

As a VA, you will provide online services to a business person. Your job responsibilities will cover scheduling meetings, making travel arrangements, screening calls, filing, and other administrative tasks. You’ll need a computer, but you will work remotely. Good VAs have the skills of time management, communication, attention to detail, and quick decision-making. A big plus in this line of work is having good people skills. Since caregivers spend their days multi-tasking, they’re already good at juggling competing demands. Often, people who hire VAs only require a few hours of work a week, and this can be scheduled at your convenience.

Freelance Writing

If you want to leverage your experience as a senior caregiver, becoming a freelance health writer is a viable option. Being a niche writer increases the chances of demanding higher pay. Your clients can include major healthcare companies, nursing homes, health magazines, websites that specialize in health care, or marketing agencies. As a writer, you’ll be tasked with writing how-to guides, research articles, news pieces, and more. To get a glimpse of job opportunities for freelancers, take a look at Hope Clark’s Funds for Writers’ newsletter.

Virtual Babysitting

For those wanting to stick to caregiving, becoming a babysitter will provide a much-needed change. Babysitting used to mean showing up in person. But that’s not the only kind of babysitting you can do. Parents hire virtual babysitters to keep kids entertained. As reported by the Business Insider, virtual babysitting is on the rise, with pay rates as high as $48/hour. When applying for a job, your experience as a senior caregiver will give you a competitive edge.  Maybe you can turn this into a lucrative side-gig.

The best place to find gigs for any of these positions are online freelancing platforms such as Upwork, Fiverr, and Thumbtack. Upwork and Fiverr are the best places to find side-gigs as personal assistants or as freelance writers. Thumbtack is a great place to post your services for local babysitting jobs. However, you can also apply for sitting gigs online.

If you don’t have a clue what virtual babysitting involves, then check out SitterCity. They’ll give you a rundown on what it takes to find work as a virtual babysitter. In addition, here are some examples of how virtual babysitters advertise their services. Additionally, it’s always beneficial to spread the word in your network. Ask for references. Recommendations can help you get your foot in the door. If you check out ZipRecruiter, you’ll see that many virtual babysitting jobs last for just a few hours. This means you can fit these jobs around your day job.

Turning Side-Gigs into a Business

For inspiration and to see what’s possible, take a look at these powerful stories on ConvertKit. (ConvertKit is the program I use to manage my email list.) These are people who turned their side-gigs into a career.

Meet Glo Atanmo. She figured out how to turn her travel side-gig into a full-time career–and all while defying her parents’ expectations that she become a doctor!

Or, read about how parenting blogger, Nina Garcia, a mom with twins and a day job, found a way to turn her blog into a full-time income stream.

In both of the above cases, a side-hustle turned into a way to earn money. However, even more important, these side-gigs eventually led to careers that matched the passions of their creators.

Paying the Bills

For most of us, doing what we love sounds unrealistic. We have to pay the bills. We need to feed ourselves. But, maybe we’re selling ourselves short.

I love how Oprah Winfrey talks about how we can move from doing what doesn’t feel right to doing what does feel right. That path could begin with a side-gig.

Sell Your Services as a Business

When you’re starting a side-gig, you’re essentially setting up a little business. Most of us don’t have a clue what that involves. However, it’s not as scary as it sounds. Here’s how to get started.

Establish an LLC. A limited liability company will protect you from all business-related risks and debts. Setting one up costs less than you might think. LegalZoom charges $79 plus filing fees to get your company registered.

Hire an Accountant. Come tax season, work with an accountant to pay your dues. As an LLC, you’ll be eligible for various tax breaks which your accountant will help calculate.

Work With a Contract. You don’t want to get stiffed for work you’ve done. Before starting any gig, enter into a contract that spells out the project’s duration, compensation, renewal options, and more. If your client refuses to pay for work you’ve agreed to do, you may have to take them to small claims court. To succeed, you’ll need to show a contract. Here’s a simple work-for-hire agreement that’s free to download.

Use Invoicing Software: Using invoicing software will ensure that people pay you on time. To create a professional-looking design, use an invoice template.  You can easily be customize it to include your business logo and brand colors. If you don’t have a logo, then check out LogoDesign.net. You may also want to set up a Paypal account so that you can easily get paid. Paypal has an invoice template that’s good for freelancers.

Promote Your Services

While ripe with opportunities, the freelance market is competitive. On the other hand, people looking to hire gig workers will be good for repeat business, and they will recommend you to their friends. Here are a few cost-effective ways to promote your services and land clients:

Create a Website. In addition to giving your business credibility, a website is a platform where you can pitch services, educate customers about your business, and make sales.

Make a Google Business Profile. Creating a Google profile will automatically make your business pop up on search listings and Google maps. This is a great way to reach a local audience and build a customer base.

Take Advantage of Social Media. Rather than just using social media to stay in touch with friends, take the time to post daily content on all prominent social media channels regarding your business. Developing a strong social presence will increase your business’s visibility and make it easier to secure gigs.

Benefits of a Side-Gig

If you feel caregiving is your passion, the extra income can be used toward nursing or medical school and earning a degree in healthcare. But, if it turns out that senior care feels like a dead end, then it’s time to think about what else you might do with your life. Side-gigs have a number of benefits:

  • You may discover an outlet for your passions and hobbies.
  • Side-gigs can lead to better job opportunities.
  • The people who employ you can teach you new skills.

As a senior caregiver looking for side-gigs, you have a lot of options. Choose side-gigs that fit your skills and time constraints. A side-gig can give you ready cash in the short term, or it can lead to a life that’s more meaningful and financially rewarding.

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A mid-life mom, Colleen Gallagher would do anything to protect her children from harm. When her daughter’s husband falls ill with ALS, Colleen rolls up her sleeves and moves in, juggling the multiple roles of grandma, cook, and caregiver, only to discover that even her superhuman efforts can’t fix what’s wrong.

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A Chance to Say Goodbye: Reflections on Losing a Parent

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The Space Between: A Memoir of Mother-Daughter Love at the End of Life

The Space Between: A Memoir of Mother-Daughter Love at the End of Life
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Bonds of Love and Blood

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