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The Evolution of a Caregiver

October 20, 2015 by Marylee MacDonald

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To care for a loved one, caregivers must guard their own emotional resources.

Are you a caregiver? A caregiver is anyone–friend or family–who steps in to help. Caregiving means that you, the caregiver, take on the responsibility for someone else’s life. You might shop for groceries, babysit, or pick up clothes at the dry cleaners. You might provide transportation to doctors’ appointments or deal with insurance claims. Above all, you take on the worry. The person you are caring for can’t manage on their own. You know it. They may or may not realize how essential you are to their well being.

What happens so often is that an initial crisis turns into a long, agonizing decline. Now, it’s not just hours every week. It’s years of your life. That’s where the rubber meets the road.

Taking on a caregiving role isn’t something most of us have in our life plan. We’re called into service like reluctant draftees. There simply isn’t anybody else. Taking on this role could jeopardize your own retirement security. Long-term caregiving also can take a toll on your health. To take on this responsibility willingly, generously, and with an open heart–that’s the key to your success. On this website you’ll find news about caregiver health, smartphone apps, home nursing, hiring and paying for help, and much more. You’ll also find stories from people who’ve been walked the caregiver’s long, and sometimes lonely, walk.

Above all, caregiving means that you, the caregiver, must guard your emotional resources. Only you can provide what the person you are caring for needs most. It’s what we all need. Love, attention and compassion.

If you’re a caregiver, what are your biggest challenges? If you were one but have now come out on the other side, how did you cope? If you could write a letter to a person who is new to caregiving, what advice would you offer?

Marylee MacDonald

Filed Under: What's New Tagged With: caregiver, caregivers, compassion

About Marylee MacDonald

Marylee MacDonald is a prize-winning author and writing coach. Her novel, MONTPELIER TOMORROW, won the Gold Medal for Drama from International Readers' Favorites. Her short story collection, BONDS OF LOVE & BLOOD, is about the forces that hold us together and keep us apart. She helps new writers find publishers.

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A mid-life mom, Colleen Gallagher would do anything to protect her children from harm. When her daughter’s husband falls ill with ALS, Colleen rolls up her sleeves and moves in, juggling the multiple roles of grandma, cook, and caregiver, only to discover that even her superhuman efforts can’t fix what’s wrong.

“A heartrending story of love, loss and the endurance of the human spirit.” – Literary Fiction Book Review

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